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David Breman   

David Gerald Berman
“Weakness carries within it a secret power: The one who is weaker can call forth powers of love in the one who is stronger” -
Jean Vanier

Peacefully, surrounded by family and friends at L'Arche Bethany House, London, on Thursday, May 8, 2008,
David Gerald Berman passed away in his 76th year. Predeceased by his parents Bill (2000) and Daisy (1984)
and brother Ted (1941). Dear brother of Ron (Hazel), Kathy Marino (George), Eileen Williams (Jack), Norm (Donna), 
Doug (Gaetan), and Marjorie Manley (Keith). Lovingly remembered by many nieces and nephews. 
Friends will be received at Forest Lawn Memorial Chapel, 1997 Dundas Street East (at Wavell), 
for visitation on Monday from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. 
Funeral Service will be held in the chapel on Tuesday, May 13, 2008 at 11 a.m. 
Cremation to follow with interment at Forest Lawn
Memorial Gardens at a later date. In memory, donations to L'Arche London would be appreciated.

Join us for a 
A "Big Sing"
with 

John Bell

Sunday, June 1, 2008
7-9:30 pm
St. Aidan's Anglican Church
1246 Oxford Street West, London

 

John is an ordained minister of the Church of Scotland and a Member of the Iona Community. He has produced many collections of original hymns and songs as well as collections of songs from the world church. 

Come and join us in an evening of humour and singing and worship using songs from around the globe, new hymns, old psalms, and chants – for everyone regardless of age or experience. 

For more information contact Nancy Dodman 
(Associate Member of the Iona Community)

519-641-0485  ndodman@sympatico.ca

For more information on john bell and the Iona Community see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_L._Bell  http://www.iona.org.uk/

January 2008

Join us in welcoming our third home BETHANY

Home for Jim, Paul, David, 
Joanna, Alex,  &  Ben

The road to Bethany has been an inspiring one, a journey that has shown us that when we walk together we share a blessing.

Thank you to all for your support that has made Bethany a real home. 

Easter 2008  -  From being best in the world to being best for the world!


I am quite convinced that L’Arche is not only an organization caring for adults with intellectual disabilities, but it also a place where assistants go through that rite of passage from being best in to being best for. Pere Thomas used to repeat that the core members in community are our teachers and that l’Arche was a university of the heart. In my experience I have seen over and over that the core members are the teachers, they teach young adults who are in university or searching for their path in the society, how to be best for the world, how to bring competence and compassion together in an integrated way, a real way, how to make the world a better place, a more human society.

Toinette Parisio
Community Leader and Director

Jean Vanier

Visit his new website at http://www.jean-vanier.org
Letter From Jean Vanier -
September 2007

At present I am in the monastery at Orval: a gentle time of quiet, of peace, of prayerfulness. A time to assimilate all that I have lived these last few months and particularly Barbara’s death. I still have difficulty realising that she has gone. Bill Clarke was able to be with her a day before she died. She was so present at the Eucharist he celebrated in her hospital room. It was a real gift for her that he was able to be with her. For me, I had the grace of being with her, holding her hand, during her last two hours. She opened her eyes, looked at me, we prayed, her breathing and her heart stopped. Her departure was gentle and peaceful; she left without a groan, without a murmur, no word of complaint, no apparent agony; a falling asleep as a little child in the arms of God. Her last breath was for Bill when he arrived to say mass a second time. Barbara died as she had lived, humbly and silently.

 (To read Jean's letter from May 2007)  

Archbishop Rowan Williams

'The Mission for L'Arche Today' - Address at L’Arche International Federation Meeting, Assisi, Italy Sunday 29 May 2005

When I think of L’Arche, I usually think first of faces: literally, primarily, the faces of community members met over the years, as well as all the particular stories that L’Arche people tell, the witness of individuals and about individuals. The most effective books about L’Arche have been those with pictures. The history of the community is an icon screen, a forest of faces behind each of which is the holy place. People are made to look like God, says the Bible ..

(Continued ..)

  Jean Vanier
Founder of L'Arche

Jean was born in Canada in 1928; his father was the Governor General of Canada. He was brought up in both Canada and England, and spent many years in the British Royal Navy and then the Canadian Royal Navy. In 1950, he resigned from the Navy and passed a doctorate in philosophy at the “Institut Catholique” in Paris.

In 1963, he discovered people with learning disabilities when he visited his friend, Père Thomas Philippe, chaplain at the Val Fleuri, a home for thirty or so men with learning disabilities in the village of Trosly Breuil in the Oise region of France. Challenged by the simplicity, the sense of welcome, and the urgent call to relationship expressed by these men, Jean decided, in 1964, to welcome Philippe Seux and Raphaël Simi into a home he called L’Arche, in the village of Trosly Breuil. Jean was well aware of the fact that his action was irreversible, however he did not imagine how big L’Arche would become: in 2006 there are 131 communities in 34 countries throughout the world.

In 1971, Jean founded Faith and Light with Marie Hélène Matthieu. This movement brings together people with learning disabilities, their parents and friends for a time of sharing, of celebration and of prayer. These communities meet once or twice a month, and there are currently more than a thousand communities worldwide.

Jean was community leader for L’Arche Trosly-Breuil until the year 1981; he still lives in this community. He visits communities throughout the world, and gives talks and retreats.


JEAN’S TESTIMONY WITH REGARD TO HIS CALL
“I discovered people with learning disabilities in 1963 when I visited Père Thomas Philippe, who was chaplain at the Val Fleuri, a home for thirty or so men with learning disabilities, in the village of Trosly Breuil in the Oise region of France. I was challenged by their simplicity, their sense of welcome, their urgent call to relationship.

This experience moved me and I decided to visit homes for the mentally handicapped, homes for the elderly and psychiatric hospitals. What I saw came as a terrible shock to me. I discovered an atmosphere of violence, of cries and yet, at the same time, I felt that God was deeply present. It was a mixture of peace and chaos.

I gradually became aware of how deeply wounded people with learning disabilities are. Even if they are well cared for, they do not understand why they have been excluded, why they are not living in the same way as their brothers and sisters. They are also sometimes oppressed: throughout the world I have seen children chained up; I have seen 200 men and women piled into a room and living in filth…

My experience has shown me that their violence, their strange behaviour, their depression are pleas for true relationship: Am I worth taking care of? The only response to this question is another heart saying “Yes, you’re worth it. I am willing to commit myself to a relationship with you, because I want you to live”.

So it was that, with Père Thomas help and confirmation, I felt called to welcome Raphaël and Philippe, two men with learning disabilities. We started to live together in a small house in Trosly Breuil. We worked, prayed, travelled, and shared our lives together. Little by little we learned how to get on with one another: L’Arche had begun”.